Grosvenor Shopping Centre

In an effort to promote the group and encourage new members GranPart set up a table in the Grosvenor shopping centre Northampton.

It was good to see people who had seen the advert for the event coming along to find out more.

On Friday August 17th South Northamptonshire Council Chairman Richard Dallyn came along to our meeting at Manning Watts House.

After listening to the group, we explained our plans on promoting GranPart in order to gain greater awareness. Richard was able to offer advice based on his previous experience working in the media.

Northampton MP offers support

We were delighted to welcome Andrew Lewer, Member of Parliament for Northampton South, to a recent meeting at Manning Watts House.

Andrew has picked up the baton from his predecessor and has shown his support when speaking at the recent Westminster debate. He mentioned the good work GranPart are doing to support grandparents and help fight for grandparent and grandchildren's rights.

Over the past few months GranPart have been involved with the Waitrose Community Matters Green Coin Scheme.

Coins collected earned us £245 from the Towcester store and a fantastic £427 from Oakgrove store in Milton Keynes.

Grandchildren alienated from their grandparents is a global epidemic and is considered by leading international experts in the field to be a severe form of child and elder abuse. The dynamics of families being torn apart, often as a result of acrimonious family breakdown or other toxic family events, results in heartbreaking tragedy in the lives of grandchildren and grandparents who lose an important, loving and valuable relationship together. It is estimated that in the UK more than a million grandchildren are denied contact with their grandparents.

An Action Day focusing on ‘Broken Bonds, the Plight of Grandchildren Estranged from their Grandparents’ iswas held at The Palace of Westminster on September 4^th 2019 to call for greater recognition of this life-impacting issue and to ensure legislation ensures the right of a relationship for grandchildren with their grandparents, regardless of the children’s parental situation.

Dame Esther Rantzen, Nigel Huddleston MP, Dr Matthew Offord MP, together with experts in family law and researchers in the field of family psychology spoke about the long-term detrimental effects of such estrangements and the potentially serious long-term consequences on both affected grandchildren and grandparents.​

The panel included Solicitor Vanessa LLoyd Platt,

Dame Esther Rantzen & Nigel Huddleston MP

WESTMINSTER HALL DEBATE

Click on image above to watch the debate.

On the 2nd May 2018 a debate was held in Westminster Hall when Nigel Huddleston, MP for Mid Worcestershire, moved a motion that the House considered grandchildren's access rights to their grandparents.

t is not the first time that this issue has been debated in the House of Commons. A similar debate took place about a year ago. Unfortunately, because of purdah rules close to the election the then Minister was unable to give the full response as expected. 

The debate featured many MP's talking about constituents who have visited them at thier surgeries with stories of grandparent alienation.I

Northampton MP Andrew Lewer and our patron Iain Stewart MP mentioned the great work Granpart is doing to support members of their constituencies.

Following on from the debate Nigel Huddleston wrote in his August newsletter 'I also met with Justice Minister Lucy Frazer to reiterate my calls for action to be taken to improve grandchildren’s access rights to their grandparents. This meeting was a follow-up to the Westminster Hall debate I led on the issue earlier this year and I was pleased to hear that the changes to legislation I proposed in the debate are being considered by the Ministry of Justice. I am still receiving correspondence from families across the country who have been denied access to their grandparents or grandchildren and I will continue my lobbying efforts on my return to Parliament in September'.

The day started early for me as I was asked by 3 counties radio to talk about what we were hoping to achieve. (click to listen Media)

I attended Lobby day accompanied by Iain Stewart MP who is Patron of my group. The aim of the day was to raise awareness amongst politicians of the desperate need to recognise the rights of grandparents.

The law does not presently convey an automatic right to grandparents to have contact with their grandchildren.

At present grandparents, must firstly get over the hurdle of applying to the court for leave (permission), then if such leave is given they will formally apply to see their grandchildren for what is known as "a child arrangement order".

Solicitor Vanessa Lloyd Platt, a passionate supporter of changing the law, spoke to the group along with Dame Esther Rantzen another long term supporter.

Lynn Chesterman OBE said there will be a petition and hoping to get 100,000 signatures.

She wants to see the application for leave of court abolished and that children should have the right to see their grandparents and that children should be the main priority as grandparents play such an important role in a child’s life.

Dame Esther was impressed at the loyalty shown at the event by the number of grandparents in the room.

She had 238 testimonials from when she appeared on the One Show a few years ago with Jane Jackson from the Bristol grandparent group and she read a couple out which were all too familiar stories of most people in the room. She refers to the fact that this loss is a living bereavement. In France they already have automatic right and do not have to apply to the courts.

She touched on the fact that yes you can take this to court but at a cost a very expensive one at that.

Vanessa is a grandmother of 3 and extremely passionate about grandparent’s rights as she has lots of clients that come to her for advice. 

She wants the application for leave of court abolished, as we are behind the times with this and children should have the right to see their grandparents. She will not stop pushing this till this law is changed. She went on to say that even when you apply for a child arrangement order it is not always successful and so that is money not well spent.

In 2010 MP’s looked into making changes but no change was ever made. However, after today’s event hopefully MP’s will discuss it and put it in the manifesto.

There are many reasons why grandparents are denied access but we still should remember family loyalties and respect.

Rabbi David Mason supports a group from Hendon and he quoted the 5th commandment “Honour thy Mother and Father” which says it all really.

Lynn Chesterman did the summary of the discussion and said this WILL go to the policy board and in the next manifesto for the next election.

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